Advice of the Day

Hello Strangers!

A little bit about myself,

I am an overthinker, a reader, sometimes a pessimist others an optimist and an ambivert.

I am figuring myself out and so far i have found a mess of feelings and emotions inside myself. Sometimes I think everyone hates me, sometimes I am certain that I am not worth their hate so they are probably not thinking about me. I started this blog because I wanted to express myself and experience a few changes in my current life. Also, I was bored. Not that you wanna know, but my university application is in progress so I have mental breakdowns sometimes( *inserts nervous laughter).

Another reason as for why I am doing this, to find people who understand me and maybe wanna read me ramble on about random things.

If you've come so far, I like you and you are amazing.

Now, I'll keep it short since it's my first time.

I am going to put an advice here

Never bottle up your feelings.

So you know how we see characters in movies or TV shows who bottle up their feelings and then after some time, when they've had enough and gone through an incredible amount of pain, they scream their thoughts out loud by yelling at some other person or bawling in the washroom. 

I believe that in real life we don't get a chance to do this and honestly, we shouldn't. Of course we opt the latter choice sometimes and we come out of the washroom like we weren't crying like Elena from The Vampire Diaries. 

I used to do this a lot, and most of the time it was because of stuff that i thought was out of my hands but it was actually well within my reach.

At first, you should try reaching out to your family. Your parents or your siblings or your grandparents, will listen to your problems if you are willing to talk to them about this. Ask yourself what is stopping you from doing so. If your answer sounds like they will never understand, they will think you are weak or anything of this sort, then try for once. Try telling them about what's troubling you, maybe the outcome will surprise you or even if they don't pay that much attention at least your mind will feel minute rest from that action.

If that doesn't work out, then move onto the second option, friends. They are your age, they might be going through the same things and will understand you.

Remember, whenever you vent out to another human being, whoever may it be, always return your gratitude by listening to their problems as well. Everyone is going through something so you gotta reciprocate.

 

Now the third option, 

Look yourself in the mirror and say this, 

"I am amazing, I can do anything I desire so I'm going to take action and solve this problem by using my incredible brain. Neither am I going to needlessly worry nor am I gonna be sorry for myself. I am awesome and I'm not giving up"

I am unaware of the problems you're facing or the severity of those issues, I am incapable of solving those problems but I'm just trying to tell you a way of dealing with those problems.

I am going to end this here and I really want to hear your views about what I wrote.

This is my first time writing something like this, so I am open to criticism.

Thank you for reading so far.